Dating 20 questions
When my husband and I were still dating, I pulled up the list one night and suggested we play the “questions game.” We also mixed it up by seeing if we could guess what the other person would answer.
It was a lot of fun, but also a very profound experience and we ended up learning so much about each other (and about ourselves! To this day we make an effort to spend time asking each other deep, meaningful questions that go beyond ‘how was your day?
If we go home together tonight, I’m not really going to want to cuddle.
Will you be willing to take a backseat to my career?
History has shown us that incompatibility leads to terrible things, like crying and the French revolution and Nick Carroway sucking back martinis like this, an image that will surely haunt your dreams for the rest of your life.
If you don't want your relationship to end thusly, it's of the utmost importance that you and the person you're considering dating are at least 78% compatible (Cormac and Hermione were 15%, and we all remember how that turned out).
Manchmal aber (ok, wenn wir ehrlich sind wohl meistens) gehen solche ersten Treffen nicht immer ganz so glatt über die Bühne.
Das muss aber nicht immer heißen, dass ihr nicht zueinander passt.
Maybe it’s because we hold ourselves back or maybe it’s because we no longer have the tools to genuinely connect, like face-to-face and via conversation."But how can I establish our compatibility before we've gotten all up in each other's facial space and smashed our mouths together? By asking them the 20 questions contained herein, THAT’S HOW.Simply invite your crush to share a burrito and politely (albeit very seductively) run down this list, OR scream these quandaries at them from across the cafeteria to see how they perform under pressure.A love map is essentially knowing all relevant information about your partner’s life, from small things like the name of their first pet to big things like significant experiences that shaped who they are.
He explains that couples who have detailed love maps of each other’s worlds are much more equipped to cope with stressful events and overcome conflict. What’s your policy regarding leaving people suddenly and without warning? I’m not saying right away, but eventually down the line, how open would you be to introducing a third party to our sex life?